Donal was introduced to us a year later when he won a local
hero award in Co. Kerry. By this stage the cancer had returned and he was in
the final months of his life.
He was given a platform to speak and chose a message that
hit the core of a devastating crisis in Ireland; as a 16-year-old male, Donal
was statistically more likely to take his own life than fight for it.
For someone who had spent years fighting, this was both
heartbreaking and frustrating. He
simply asked that people appreciate what they have, choose life over death and above
all, savour what he could not.
He died on May 13th, one month short of his 17th
birthday.
The front page of The Kerryman on the week of Donal's funeral
A few weeks ago, a package arrived to the Colm Hayes Show on
2fm. In it was a blank 6x6 canvas and a letter, signed by Donal Walsh. It had
been written a few weeks before he passed away.
The letter began by explaining that while Tralee General
Hospital had a palliative day care unit, it was still without a full time in-patient
service. In the frightening and difficult hours of his illness, Donal craved
the familiarity and comfort of home. But circumstance meant that he had to
travel over two hours to Cork. He was one of thousands who regularly made that journey.
Tireless fundraising of Kerry Hospice volunteers has already
raised three of the five million euro needed for the 15 in-patient facility.
The canvas was part of the next fundraising event in which well-known people
would contribute a piece of artwork. The work would then be sold anonymously
for 100 each in the hope that 15,000 could be raised for the unit.
The most remarkable part of the letter was Donal’s
acknowledgement that he probably wouldn’t live to see the fundraiser but wanted
to do what he could for those who had a chance at life. He had compassion and
foresight far beyond his years.
Colm Hayes read the letter on air and Kerry Hospice
immediately received calls from people who wanted to contribute in some way.
Even after his passing, Donal is still making a difference.
On Friday July 12th, Colm’s piece will be sold at
the Kerry Hospice Fundraiser, along with artwork by well-known people from
sport, politics, media, music and television. All funds will go directly
towards the construction and maintenance of the palliative care in-patient
facility of Tralee General Hospital.
If you can come down and support, please do. The sale will
be held in the existing palliative day care unit of Tralee General Hospital on
the evening of Friday, July 12th.
A little something extra
Kerry has one of the
highest suicide rates in Ireland. A month before Donal died, a coroner in
Killarney reported that five out of six deaths in his quarterly court were male
suicides. One was 30, one 22,
another was 21 and two were 16, the same age as Donal.
But Kerry has also
produced some remarkable people who have found a message of hope in
hopelessness. One such example is Cora O’Brien, who lost her 17-year-old son,
David, to suicide in 2007. She organized ‘Nunday’ in 2012, an event that raised
thousands for suicide services and saw a small town in north Kerry break a
world record.
James Keating and I
turned up as a sort of a modern day Radharc team, laden with microphones and
cameras and habits. The video was subsequently screened at a number of film
festivals.
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